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Friday, April 21, 2006

The Stereotype of Kuwait Is It True ... Or They're Exaggerating?

The Stereotype of Kuwait Is It True ... Or They're Exaggerating?

I can't believe that people around the world envy us about everything we have or do. Seems they're observing us. All what they care about is ... How do we live? How big are our houses? How much money do we have? How luxurious are our cars? What brands do we wear? Where do we spend our vacations in summer? ....etc. They are killing us, but they don't feel that they are. They think that all the Kuwaitis are overweening, pretending to be philanthropists and telling poor people that we are the one who gave you this and we are the one who gave you that, showing off that we are generous, and we are the best, no one else but us, and employees are careless they get their salaries without working hard. They also think that every Kuwaiti has fields of oil under his house selling it to the government for large amount of money...

UHHH .. HOW FUNNY THEY ARE.
Here one of my situations which I've been told that Kuwaitis are rich people:
This situation happened to me when I was shopping with my mother at one of the malls in Spain. We saw an old beggar woman who asked us for money. I gave her (1.000 Peseta ,before they changed their currency to Euro, which is about 2.500 KD) She paused for a while because she was shocked. No one there or even here gives that much to beggars .. She asked me about my nationality and I told her that I'm Kuwaiti. She said "You're Kuwaiti !! I've heard that you have lot of money .. THEN GIVE ME MORE PLEASE ... I HAVE FOUR KIDS AND I HAVE TO FEED THEM ................" You know how do they beg people.
Believe me ... we are totally different, I know that you've been brain washed because of what you see in the media. All what you see is just silliness. If you see one person or two who are showing off that they have money, drive luxurious cars and looking at other people with self-conceit and a lowness eye .. or if you see employees that don't work hard, you will think that ALL Kuwaitis are like these people?

... OF COURSE NOT ...

Kuwaitis are not the same, and we're not all wealthy or careless, "YES" the majority of us have money , "BUT" others live on the salaries. "YES" some of us are not honest when it comes to work, "BUT" most of us are workaholic and deserve the salaries they get. Not just Kuwait has this kind of people ,all the countries have but even worse. We are really modest, generous , hardworking and like to help people who seek help, so don't let these people destroy our reputation and give you a bad image about us and our country "Kuwait".

THIS IS ABOUT THE STEREOTYPE OF KUWAIT IN GENERAL

I don't know how did I write these words, I just free my hand and wrote what was repressed inside me about what people think about us.

30 Comments:

Blogger bo_sale7 said...

welldone

Fri Apr 21, 06:51:00 PM  
Blogger 7asoon said...

nicely done solo :)

It's true that the majority of Kuwaitis have a decent income, hence the fancy cars and houses. But that's not showing off? that's just living normal to ppl with such income. being rich doesn't mean donating all your money or saving it to eternity

it's true that our gov. takes good care of us. why not live like we're being taken care of 3ayal?

bottom line :- for those who envy us... EAT ME! ;P

Fri Apr 21, 08:01:00 PM  
Blogger The Stallion said...

I don't think anyone could have said it any better! Amazing post!

Fri Apr 21, 10:21:00 PM  
Blogger SOLO said...

::bo_sale7:: Thanks alot ^_^

Sat Apr 22, 12:09:00 AM  
Blogger SOLO said...

::7asoon::
YAAH you're totally right .. if people have decent salaries ,so why not spending their money on whatever they want and please themselves with it..

Thank you for your comment 7asoon ;)

Sat Apr 22, 12:21:00 AM  
Blogger SOLO said...

::The Stallion::
Thank you for commenting .. that's really sweet of you .. and i'm glad you liked my post ^_^

Sat Apr 22, 12:25:00 AM  
Blogger Rampurple said...

it was very well written... also u know, they stereotype expats living in kuwait the same way ... "u work in kuwait? so u much be rich!" i think everyone believes that we all have oil barrels in our backyards...

As for kuwaitis being lazy at work, i think this stereotype used to exist once upon a time when sorry to say it was true... long time ago. I also believe the kuwaitis today have worked hard to change that image.

Sat Apr 22, 12:51:00 PM  
Blogger Dakhtour said...

Bravooooo
Great post walla
By the way I think the lady in spain was lying to u, she doesn't know anything about Kuwait ;)

Sat Apr 22, 04:22:00 PM  
Blogger iDip said...

You're right!
and that's why we all should start by ourselves, because if we act the way we're stereotyped, then we will give exaggerators an excuse.

Sat Apr 22, 05:03:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Many non-Kuwaitis are envious and even jealous because we as a people in general work much less than many while reaping the social benefits as well. Our government also subsidizes so much that imports can be cheap which in turn make our lives a little more comfy. And we are one of the fewest countries in the world not to grant citizenship just to anyone, making it that much more easier to retain the internal wealth as well as that much easier for foreigners to want to attack us. There are also no taxes in the country so far. Of course they can be pissed off. Then they see how nomads (Bedouins) and close-knit families who interbreed have dominance over the wealth in the country. This triggers all sorts of hate especially from democratic countries.

Most Kuwaitis are on credit by the way. They are not rich by assets like cash. Most of it is based on loans. The whole country, however, is slowly turning around now because of oil riches from high oil prices as of late. Still, the country is not as rich as it looks. It's a grande facade.

Sat Apr 22, 05:47:00 PM  
Blogger cosimfree911 said...

well about the STEREOTYPING its 49 % of the time true ;) oo ehnee bel kwt its not like that 49% its true about them and 49% wanna be like the other 49 and we just have 2% normal ppl here in kwt

anshalaa bs akoon anaa meen al 2%

just be ur self and dont care what other ppl say ;) cos they ganna hate us any way
and live ur life

Sun Apr 23, 04:59:00 AM  
Blogger SOLO said...

::Rampurple::
Thanks .. so sweet of you ..

Yes, that's right everyone believes that we all have oil in our backyards .. I think we did a good job to do so through media ,but still others believe that negative stereotype.

Thanks again for your comment ;)

Sun Apr 23, 07:45:00 PM  
Blogger SOLO said...

::Hrithik..::
You're right, even my teacher who is also American thought about that !! COOOME OOON don't they see it in media!!
That's really unbelievable.

Thanks for sharing :)

Sun Apr 23, 07:47:00 PM  
Blogger SOLO said...

::ZiZoTiM::
Huhuhu .. Really !! If she doesn't know anything about Kuwait, then why did she ask me for more? Who told her that Kuwaiti people are rich?
That's confusing !! I was amazed ,she is an old woman, poor and I don't think that she has at least TV to know about us. @_@ !!

Thanks Zizo .. come again.

Sun Apr 23, 07:50:00 PM  
Blogger SOLO said...

::iDip::
Yeah .. Thank you Sooo.. That's what I'm going to say.. We should start by ourselves.

Thanks for visiting ;)

Sun Apr 23, 07:52:00 PM  
Blogger SOLO said...

::Tantalize::
umm .. they're envious because their government is not as generous as our government .. THANKS TO OUR GOVERNMENT AND LEADERS.
Yeah, the country is not as rich as it looks.. This is the fact that no one can believe it.

Thanks a lot for passing by and I appreciate your participation .. You're such a know it all ^_^

Sun Apr 23, 07:56:00 PM  
Blogger SOLO said...

::cosimfree911::
hope you be one of them ;)
And that's not ashamed at all to be so ..

Thanks cosimfree for commenting and do it again :)

Sun Apr 23, 07:59:00 PM  
Blogger Saroona said...

Really nice post, Solo-para-me, congratulations. You know, I really appreciate Kuwaity people, but I started to better know your country a few months ago, when I asked my fiancee where is he born, and he told me Kuwait City (he has Egyptian citizenship, both his parents are Egys). He lived there a few years and I was thinking that this might have influenced his personality so I decided to read something about this country. And what I heard from people around (in general) was something very similar to what you have written: that Kuwaitis are very rich (the same thing I heard about Saudis), that they are materialistic people (hey, who isn't nowadays?!), snobs... Things like that, generated by envy, I presume. Really, most people genearlise that much that they extend these characteristics to all Arabs (in my country being Arab = being rich). And I have Saudi gfs who told me that these stereotypes affect them when travveling abroad, cause people feel free to charge them extra simply for being Saudis, hence 'having lots of money'. In my country it is the same: when I take a cab and they see that I am Romanian by the way I speak (I look Greek, Arabian, so I've been told) I get charged with 'x' sum of money, but when I am with my fiancee he is charged 'x+3' for the same distance and by the same company... At the restaurant it happens the same, they are extra-charging the bills with no shame... Only because they see clearly that he is foreigner! So you see what a mess these stereotypes steer! It is so unfair...

Sun Apr 23, 10:11:00 PM  
Blogger SOLO said...

::Sarah::
That's really annoying .. yes it's UNFAIR and hard to accept it .. See, you believed what you read about us and i don't blame you because you didn't know and that's the media's fault .. But why can't other people correct this bad image? That'll be better if they do so .. And I hope you knew us better after all .. and thank god that you look Greek, or you'll be extra-charged.

Sarah, thank you dear for your sweet words that's really nice of you and I do appreciate it ^_^

Sun Apr 23, 11:48:00 PM  
Blogger ana_sokkarah said...

nice post & subject mashallah 3alaich :)

Mon Apr 24, 07:54:00 AM  
Blogger SOLO said...

::ana_sokkarah::
hey 7abebty .. i'm glad you liked it.

Thanks and come again sweety ^__'

Mon Apr 24, 11:00:00 AM  
Blogger Dakhtour said...

HeHe I think she's a clever old lady :)
Maybe she thought that you're a rich girl so y don't she take more money from u? :)
Yobaaaa n9b o e7teyaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaal ;)

Tue Apr 25, 06:58:00 PM  
Blogger SOLO said...

::ZiZoTiMe::
Huhuhu .. n9b !! 3ayal mo haynah hal3ayoos ;p

maybe coz ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE
^_^
thanks Zizo

Wed Apr 26, 11:30:00 AM  
Blogger 3ateeja said...

انا فهمت
بس مو وايد
:) عن الصوره النمطيه على ما اظن

Thu Apr 27, 03:01:00 AM  
Blogger SOLO said...

عتووجه ظنج بمحله ^_^

بس ما قلتيلي شنو رايج بالصوره النمطيه الغير حقيقيه اللي ماخذينها عن الكويت؟

Thu Apr 27, 09:16:00 AM  
Blogger lawyer said...

للاسف
كلامج في محله و صح
المشكله عندنا مشكلتين
مشكله الكويتين الي للحين عبالهم اهم في عز الشبعينات و طفره الفلوس و عايشين على العز و الخير و الشحاطه و اهم اقساط من فوق لي تحت و مشكله الشحاطه الي مالها اول و لا تالي و على الخرطي


و مشكله الكويتين الاكبر ان يعتقدون انهم اغنياء او شعب مترف وايد
تعالي شوفي باجي الشعوب الي سبقتنا و راحت و لا همهم يوقفون عن امور تافهه صغيره

اسبقونا الناس بعملهم و احنا الكويتين للحين واقفين نقول يدي سوا و ابوي عنده

و مشكله باجي الشعوب انهم للحين يحسبون ان احنا شي و نايمين على براميل فلوس

Fri Apr 28, 12:12:00 PM  
Blogger 3ateeja said...

نظره سطحيه وان دلت فهي تدل على جهل نابع حتى من قبل الشعووب المتقدمه ....
ولكنها في الوقت الحالي اي الكويت افضل من كثير من الدول لأن ماظنتي في كويتي ينام من غير عشا وما اقدر انفيي ان لكويتي شايف روحهه وفيه انعره
حتى وحده متواضعه اذكر كانت راده من تركيا جان تقولي تصدقي شنو الكلمات اللي حافظينها الاتراك منا ؟؟؟
ياللللللله <<< زفه ويا حمار
والحمدالله عالنعمه والعافيه وحنا بنعم ما تبي غير حمد وشكر وترى احتمال ان تحت بيتج بترول
اعتقد غاز الشمال كفيل في انه يشرحلج السبب
:)

Sat Apr 29, 08:14:00 AM  
Blogger SOLO said...

::lawyer::
هلا والله ومرحبة فيج ببلوججي

إيه والله وانتي الصاجة يقعدون يفتخرون بشنو سوو آبائهم وأجدادهم..انزين هالزمن زمن منو ؟؟ زمنكم ولا زمن أجدادكم!! والله حالة

وصح مثل ما قلتي المشكلة بعضهم يعتقدون أنهم اسكت يعني عيال فلوس .. وما يدرون ان هالفخفخة الزايدة عن حدها تؤثر عليهم وعلى ديرتهم وتخلي الناس والدول اللي ما اتعرفنا يطمعون فينا عبالهم ان احنا من كثر فلوسنا محنا عارفين وين نوديهم

صح شي يبط الجبد والله

ومشكووره محاميتنا على مرورج ^_^

Sat Apr 29, 01:13:00 PM  
Blogger SOLO said...

::3ateeja::
عدل كلامج والله بس عتووج انتي قاعدة اتعممين ان كل الكويتيين شايفسن نفسهم .. وانا معاج وادري ان "الأغلبييييييية" شايفين نفسهم لان عندهم فلوووس بس هم أقوللج مو كلهم

ومن قاللج ان ما في كويتي ما ينام بدون عشا ياما أسر كويتية فقرا ومولاقين ياكلون ولا حتى بيت مثل العالم والناس عندهم .. وحطووهم بالتلفزيون

إي والله الحمدلله على هالنعمة .. اللي عندنا مو عند غيرنا .. يالله ياربي تبارك بهالنعمة وتحفضها من الزوال وتدوم علينا الأمن والمان

ومشكوره حبيبتي عتوج على متابعتج ^_^

Sat Apr 29, 01:27:00 PM  
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