FRIEND IN NEED, IS A FRIEND IN DEED

FRIEND IN NEED, IS A FRIEND IN DEED

What do you know about friendship? What does it mean to you? Is it just a normal relationship among people? Or it's more than that? Do you wait for a reward from your friends? Or it doesn't make any difference to you? Why do you have friends? Do you really need them? Are they very important in your life? Who is your best friend? Or who really deserve to be your best friend? Is it very easy to find a real friend who respects and appreciates friendship nowadays? How do you choose your friends? Is it for their personalities? Or for the way they look? Or for what they own (luxurious cars, brand bags or accessories)? Or for their success? Or for their popularity?

These are questions that you might say that they're ridiculous and easy to answer ,but when you think about them carefully you will realize that they're not easy or simple as you think. At first, I thought that it's very easy to have a friend or more ,but I noticed that I was completely wrong. It is hard to find a true friend these days.

Friendship is a wonderful relationship between two people or more that full of respect ,honesty ,and appreciation. It's not limited and it's never ended .. UNLESS YOU DECIDE TO END IT.
Friends are very important in our lives specially when you feel that you need someone to talk to, solve your problems if you have , advise you and warn you if you did mistakes.

The best rewarding from your friends is to see them satisfied when you help them, the best rewarding is to care about you like you care about them, find them when you need them like they find you when they need you .... etc. For me I don't wait for a reward from my friends, I don't want anything from them but to treat me like I treat them, I just want them as friends .. this is the kind of rewarding that I wanted from my friends and nearest people for all of these years ... Nothing more than that .. "Lilasaf" they get what they want from me but don't give me what I need when I seek their help .. This is my suffering. Although I know that i don't get as much as I give them, I still help them and be existed when they need me .. I have to do that cause they are my friends and you don't know how much I appreciate friendship, it is important for me more than anything else.

when you ask your friends for something and you really need their help, do they try to help you get what you want? Do they listen to your problems carefully and find the best solutions to them?
If yes then you're lucky (Allah la ye'3ayer 3alaikom).

"Friend in need, is a friend indeed".. *suhhhh* it doesn't fit all my friends, I help them doing their homework, assignments and projects, explaining them what is unclear even registration but all what I did became MIRAGE .. I'm not counting what I did for them ,but how could they forget that I was one day their friend or even more than a friend. I was their nearest person as they said!! Or they're misusing me during lectures!!
I'm really confused .. believe me .. it's really hard to find a real friend nowadays who really appreciates friendship.

I have a friend who I know since the first year of my college. Ya3ny I know her for 3 years and now she doesn't talk to me anymore, do you know why? Because of a silly reason. Do you think that she is a real friend? OF COURSE NOT because any friend who really loves his/her friend accepts their mistakes and try to correct them their mistakes ... Not to leave and forget them.
She should forgive me if i'm really her friend or at least accept my excuse about forgetting her for one day.
I don't know what happened to me lately ,i forget a lot.

HERE THE SITUATION

We used to meet each other at the end of our lectures. One day I forgot to call her to see each other .. THAT DAY WAS THE END OF THE WORLD FOR HER!! "eshda3wah" nothing happened to leave me and refuse to talk to me.
I talked to her once and I've noticed that she doesn't talk to me normally. I tried to smile and ask her as usual "how are you?" but it didn't work .. I did it again & again, but nothing changed ,so I left her behind because she doesn't deserve to be my friend .. If she doesn't accept my excuses ,then who will ??

This is really ridiculous ... COOOME OOOON PEOPLE "GROW UP" .. We're not children or teenagers. We're big enough and mature enough to solve our misunderstandings, and we're above such behaviors.

I'm sooo sorry for my long post ,but this is the only way to express my suffering. Because I cannot repress it anymore.
Forgive me and thank you for reading it till the end.